We all know that weddings can be stressful and shortly after the proposal happens, the wedding planning begins. With all that must be done in planning your ceremony and wedding reception, a wonderful respite from the hectic planning is an engagement party. A time to get together so that the people close to you and your groom-to-be get to know the others' circle of friends and family.

In earlier times, parents of the bride and groom arranged the engagement party, but of course this tradition has been diluted over time and now couples choose to host their own parties. This gives them ample opportunity to break away from the customary, arrange for a themed party, or even a fancy dress party with some fun theme that is a favorite with the both of you. Wedding themes can range from a special movie you both like, to a certain time period, or even a wine and cheese party that is formal if you like “proper” parties. Print coordinated invitations and if you don’t want gifts, be sure to include that in your invitation. Arrange for fun-filled games and give away prizes and wedding favors matching with your theme. Have a wild blast and share your joy with others with these engagement party ideas.

Do you and your groom like the movies? Then have a special screening of your favorite movie. Arrange for popcorn and candy and you can give away movie tickets or movie collectibles as party favors. You can also give out printed posters of the movie as your invitations. Have a movie trivia quiz and maybe even ask your friends to dress as their favorite character in the film. For example, choosing a romantic, wedding themed comedy is a good option to entertain your guests.

If you have access to a pool then you can definitely have a pool party. This is especially a great option if the weather is warmer and your friends can enjoy cocktails and pool games as well as enjoy splashing about in the water and cooling off. Have an open poolside barbeque and dish out the fare along with party music for a truly wonderful engagement party that will wash away all your guests’ inhibitions as they enjoy themselves. Having a beach themed party with beach favors is a wonderful option too.

If you and your bride or groom really love the 60's and 70's and the disco movement, then you can rent a disco ball and bring out your flared pants and get geared to trip the light fantastic with a live DJ and serve cool mixed drinks and have lava lamps in your décor and give out glow bracelets as your party favors. If you are having an all adult party, you can also have hookahs with flavored tobacco.

Finally, whatever you decide, make sure you have fun and have a ball, but just see that you go along with what kind of a wedding you want and your personal style. So, balance a very formal wedding with a semi-formal engagement party with elegant party favors.